October 2, 2013
My exgirlfriend confusing me pls read?
by Devin Ford
Question by Mike: My exgirlfriend confusing me pls read?
My exgirlfriend took me back you got back together inside 4 months she utilized to constantly drop hints regarding wedding however, I utilized u state nothing inside return not ignoring her yet really acted positive yet she all of the abrupt left me for another man plus told me she couldn’t feel secure with me,..I’m really confused is it considering I didnt propose? was I too dump to not read the hints? We r both 20 by the means …give me opinins pls do girls drop hints regarding wedding inside early relationship plus they leave when they realize the man is not the 1?
Answer by taismith
Well many items might have happened:
1. You’re not a superb communicator. Maybe we merely can’t kind coherently nevertheless should you talk the means we write, then perhaps she felt the shortage of correspondence was anything which couldn’t change. And you need to not marry somebody we can’t communicate effectively with.
2. She may be crazy. Four months inside (or 4 months inside following a breakup) is absolutely shortly to be speaking regarding wedding except we men dated for a lengthy time before the breakup.
3. We didn’t appear inclined to receive married, thus she didn’t wish To wait about for somebody to hopefully change his notice. Should you didn’t, she might have wasted her time.
4. She found somebody else which communicates perfectly along with her, possibly has a greater kind of relationship with etc. Who knows.
Answer by K
she can be 1 of them kind of ladies only to rush into marriages,,,,some girl do provide hintd however, i dont see why thus soon…u should truly reach recognize somebody and not simply to be together inside a small amount of time plus receive married…you should discover somebody that takes details slow plus not tryin to rush everything
Answer by Antonianunez
She desired the opinion about wedding. We didn’t appear interested inside it plus she felt like we didn’t see a future along with her with wedding, infants ect..
So, she left.
Trust me, I virtually left my fiancé considering he didn’t take interest inside proposing plus stuff.
Talk it out along with her, that’s what you did plus were today going about 3 years with a 9 month older.
Answer by Anna
Yes you females like to drop subtle hints which you hope you’ll receive it. Maybe she thought you’d not commit to her because method plus decided to locate somebody that can. If you are back together plus she’s speaking regarding wedding 1 day then speak to her regarding it plus she what she says…if we aren’t willing for which form of dedication yet think you’ll 1 day be then tell her. Just be honest.
Answer by Manisha
yap when she is 25, then its perfect age for many females to consider regarding wedding plus kids, plus when a not the kind of man that would like to settle down have family then why waste time along with you. she might have thought this way .
I recommend we consider it really plus in the event you think we truly love her then speak to her . you have 2nd chance